A few Sunday's Ago

This afternoon we went over Laura's parents house to swim in the pool and to visit. It was so hot that you could actually see the humidly cling to the asphalt and hang in the air. It's great to get outside and spend time at the pool with the kids and these are the days I long for in the dead of winter. Laura and I had a few margaritas and had a blast jumping in and out of the pool with the kids. While we were both doing a great job at chilling out and getting buzzed from her moms potent cocktails, we were also a bit apprehensive about tonight. This was the first time we were hosting Sara and Ron (or anyone for that matter) for a little adult fun at our house. Laura also had a lot on her minda since she has been planning for a important business trip all month.

We arrived home at almost 5:30. We had less than an hour to get the kids undressed and in their jammies, cook dinner, and shower before our guests arrived. Honestly, I was starting to get nervous. Am I really going to do this I thought? What if I can't get hard or I get jealous? Do Laura and I need code words to communicate how we are feeling at any given point? My mind was swirling. Am I seriously this buzzed?

I got the kids situated with a movie and a bucket of pop corn and sent them down stairs to the theatre. Moments later Sara and Ron arrived. He looked just like i pictured him. Tall and skinny with a goatee and his hair pulled back in a pony tail. He looked vaguely like a lead singer from a band but I just can't put my finger on it. He was dressed very casual with tan cargo shorts and a T shirt and some new Airwalk kicks. She was a little different than I had remembered. She was almost as tall as me with long auburn or dirty blonde hair. She wore tight fitting jeans with a button fly and a sexy T shirt with a black fishnet shawll. Her face was delicate and sublte. Her long hair fell across one side of her face and her smile and eyes were infectous. She definately seemed more attractive than the last time I saw her. We all sat down at the kitchen table and chatted while the kids were watching their movie in the basement. It funny when you have swingers over to your house how quickly conversation turns to sex.

"We went to a party last night and stayed till 4 AM." Sara was telling Laura in her breathy voice. They had a nice pool and people were camping at thier house but it wasn't really that fun. Some of the games were interesting. The dildo relay race was a big hit!

Ummm did she just say Dildo relay race? I thought to myself as I was taking food out of the fridge to cook on the grill?

I took it easy on the alcohol since I was still feeling buzzed. I took a bottled water from the fridge hoping it would calm my nerves and help me sober up. We cooked burgers on the grill and I made summer corn on the cob with some potato salad. I wasn't really in the mood to eat dinner. My stomach was doing back flips and I overcooked my burger so I only ate about half of it. After everyone was finished eating the kids came upstairs and Laura and I got them to bed. I had an opportunity to talk with Laura upstairs while we were alone but at this point everything was going smoothly. We were having good conversation - mostly about sex but we discussed other things. Things seemed natural and we never even discussed what was about to happen.

Laura knew what she wanted. She wanted Ron. She wore a sexy black polo shirt with no bra. We keep our house cold so it wasn't long before you could see her tight little nipples poke through. She also wore a short little miniskirt with no panties on underneath.

We decided after dinner to move the party downstairs. We all filed into the theatre and things started to get a little awkward (for me at least). Our home theatre has two row of seats. There are three seats in the back row and three seats in the front row. I was last to enter the theatre and Laura and Ron were already getting comfy in the back row. We put music on and again conversation quickly turned to sex. I was sitting in the front row with Sara and out of the corner of my eye I caught Laura and Ron touching and whispering. Laura had a blanket on her lap and I was wondering what was going on underneath.

We spent about a hour down there until Laura exclaimed, "Lets get this party started. Lets put a porno on the big screen."

I laughed nervously. Okay I replied. Let me get the collection.

I ran upstairs to get our personal stash of porn. I came down with about a dozen DVD's in hand.

"Oooohhh Porn.", Sara moaned. Is that your entire collection?

Yeah, I hesitated. Why?

"Its so small. I can't believe thats all you have. Ron and I have a whole drawer full at home. Let's see what you got. You can tell a lot about someone by the type of smut they watch. She said with a wink.

We had a lengthy discussion about our likes and dislikes with regards to porno. I  learned that some porno's loop certain clips to make them longer. I also learned that "Bi" in the title of a Porno refers to Guy-Guy action and NOT Girl-Girl. (Apparently the Girl-Girl is a given) Laura was getting anxious to either fuck or to have our guests get the fuck out. Is everything okay? She mouthed to me when no one was looking, I was feeling a little better although I still couldn't tell where Sara's head was. I'm good. I mouthed back to Laura. It was getting late and it was time to make my move.

Sara and I were standing up near the back of the theatre. I inched closer to her and finally reached in for a kiss. It was amazing. I know I am really naive when it comes to this type of shit but Instantly I knew where Sara's head was at. She was feeling me up and kissing me passionately. She was aggressive and a deep kisser. Lets move over to the front row of seats I suggested. As soon as she sat down I leaned in again for a kiss. First, I brushed her long hair to one side and kissed her on the neck. She moaned and kissed me again deeper than before. She got up and straddled me on my seat. As she was getting positioned I caught a glimpse of Laura going down on Ron. Sara mounted me up and took her top off. I caressed her breasts while we kissed some more. It was not an ideal seating position since she couldn't really spread her legs enough to grind on my cock but we made due. I moved to Sara's nipples. I licked and sucked each nipple teasing each with flicks of my tongue. Sara was aggressive which I like. She wasted no time. She got up and pulled off my shorts and boxers like a pro. Moments later she attacked my cock like a cheetah. I was still a little nervous and uneasy that I couldn't see what Laura was doing behind us but Sara put my mind at ease.

I have never had a better blow job in my life. It was amazing. She started off by taking the whole cock in her mouth. It wasn't fully hard but it didn't take long before it was. Soon she was alternating between taking the entire shaft deep inside her warm wet mouth and teasing the throbbing head with her tongue while she milked my shaft. She kept going up and down the shaft and twisting with her hands,  then she would tease the balls then back to deep throat. It felt awesome. I could have definately cum in her mouth which she later told me she would have liked but I felt like I needed to make her cum first.

At this point Laura was bent over the first row of seats and she was getting banged doggy style by Ron. I thought I would be jealous as hell but in all honesty I was beyond it. If anything I was getting more turned on. I told Sara that I wanted to do the same thing to her and she nodded as she assumed the position. I had a bitch of a time getting the condom on. I borrowed one of Ron's and it was too tight for my cock. I started fucking Sara doggy style but before long my hard on was rapidly leaving.

This is NOT fucking happening I thought to myself!!! Laura and I have been together for over twelve years and I can count the times we have used condoms together on one hand. We both hate them and we have always been monogamous so we never had a need. Sara sensing my frustration and guilt said it was okay and began sucking me again.

"I hope you know I am going above and beyond", she said. I hate the taste of latex!

When I was hard again I decided we needed another position. We moved over to the floor in the front of the theatre and by this time Laura and Ron were finished fucking. Ron left the room and I motioned to Laura to come over and help me take care of Sara. I licked Sara's completely shaved pussy while Laura and her made out. She was right. Yuck. The taste of latex was not at all pleasant. Nevertheless I was getting super turned watching Laura and Sara kiss. I tried another condom and unfortunately the same thing happened. The condom choked off my hard on and I couldn't finish. I can't believe this is happening. In my disgust I removed the condom and tossed it to the side. WTF am I going to do I thought.

Laura was straddled over Sara's mouth as Sara was lying on her back on the floor.  It was quite a sight. Laura had her miniskirt on with no panties and Sara was taking some liberties with her already wet pussy. Once again my cock was hard and I was determined to cum. I approached Laura from behind and slid my cock into her. She was soaking wet from her orgasm(s) with with Ron and from Sara's tongue. I pushed my cock deep inside her soaking pussy as I was kneeling behind her while Sara was licking us both. Her tongue slid over my shaft and Laura's clit as I was fucking my wife. It felt amazing and I would have loved to cum.

"You need to fuck Sara", Laura whispered in my ear as I was fucking her from behind. Cmon!

I took yet another condom and started to fuck Sara. She was still on her back and I rubbed my cock on her clit. I could feel my shaft slowly deflate like one of those balloons that the creepy clowns make into shapes for little kids. I was inside her for a few moments and she was really tight. I slowly pumped in and out and was getting into a good rhythm when I lost it. Despite the fact that both of my knees were losing chunks of skin on the new carpet (Apparently the rug wasn't as soft of as comfortable as I had envisioned) I could have pressed on. That was until I looked a few feet from Sara's head and I was mortified to see a chunk of dog poo laying on the carpet. I knew I caught a foul whiff of something but this was the final straw.

I can't do this! I said. There is a chunk of poo by your head, I can't deal with these condoms and I can't feel my legs.

I felt horrible. Really really horrible. I wanted to give Sara at least one orgasm but between the condoms not fitting and killing my wood, my nerves, dog poo, and the fact that chunks of skin were missing from both of my knees I had to pull the plug. After our guests left I finally got to cum with my wife. She let me fuck her on our nice comfy bed and it was wonderful.

Three Weeks Later

We still talk to Sara and Ron almost every day although we haven't seen each other since. Laura and Ron text message each other all the time and Sara and I chat via Yahoo Instant Messenger or on our Cell Phones. Sara has been insanely cool abou the entire episode. She told me that the husband of the first couple they swung with had the same problem and that I needed to experiemnt with different brand condoms to find one that fits. It also doesnt hurt if you practice with Laura once in a while she explained. I am not sure if the physical attraction between Sara and I is really there. She is not as hot as my wife by any strecth of the imagination but we really click in a intellectual level. I know that she is in to my since she is always asking to "fuck" and she has told me she would love to have me cum in her mouth and she would even consider giving my anal. I don't know I am just not sure. I would really like to meet up with a few of the other people I have met online who I think I would be a little more physically attracted to but who knows at this point. In the next days and weeks I will try and get a handle on where we stand with Sara and Ron and where Laura and I want to take this new found hobby of ours.

(und obwohl meine handy-kamera sonst eigentlich eher bescheidene bilder produziert, bin ich echt erstaunt, dass das bild doch so gut geworden ist - trotz fotografierens mit der linken hand, weil ich in der rechten einen schirm hatte ;-))

So z.B.:

• Alkaline Trio:  "Agony & Irony". Bisher gehört: "Calling all skeletons" und "Help me". Nicht schlecht!
• "Forgetting Sarah Marshall" - OST: Soundtrack zum Film. Macht auf jeden Fall Lust, den Film anzuschauen. Anspieltipps: "Love you madly" von CAKE, "We've got to do something" von Infant sorrow und "Get me away from here, I'm dying" von Belle & Sebastian.
• vom OTH-Soundtrack: Sugarcult (ganz cool ist z.B. "Shaking"), Annie Stela mit "It's you", The National mit "Lucky you", "Forever and ever Amen" von 8MM.

Ganz oben steht nach wie vor u.a. auch Jason Mraz, der am 03.10. in der Batschkapp in Ffm spielt. Und ich hab ein Ticket :-)! Bin schon total gespannt, habe ihn nämlich bisher (abgesehen von seiner Live-DVD "Tonight, not again")) noch nie live gehört.

1) Both of us have absolute veto power over who we play with. If one of us is not attracted to the couple in question, or we feel that there is no chemistry, then we don’t play with them. Period.

2) Either one of us has the right to “pull the plug” at any time, for any reason. Even if one (or both) of us is in the middle of playing; if the other says stop, we stop, end of story. For that matter, if one of us no longer wants to see a couple that we have played with, then its over.

Apparently Laura doesn't get this one. She asked what happens if she is mid sex with another person and she wanted to know why she should stop. Sometimes she really amazes me. Ultimately she ended up agreeing with this one.

3) No means no. This is the be-all, end-all rule in all swinging situations. No pressure, no forced anything, ever.

4) We do not compare our playmates to each other. This is hurtful and not necessary. The whole point of swinging is so that we can experience and enjoy other partners who will have different ways of doing things in bed.

We both agree that sometimes it's fun to discuss what the other partner was doing and what we liked and what we disliked. I don't think this is a hard and fast rule but obviously other peoples feelings are involved here so a little tact and sensitivity is in order.

5) Open and honest communication is an absolute must at all times. It is the only way that this sort of thing works.

6) In play itself, anything pretty much goes as long as our partners are comfortable with it.

7) We will not play without our partner present. Laura and I would both prefer that the people we play with be our friends. We are not talking about becoming BFF's but it is certainly important to click outside of the bedroom. A casual night out for dinner and drinks can be great foreplay. If you have been reading my Blog you know that Laura met with Sara and Ron this past weekend while I was away. I was a little uneasy about it. I decided that play would be defined as kissing, touching, oral, or any other intercourse.

"Ahhh I can't even kiss?", Laura sighed after reading the rules.

"Hell no! How would you feel if I was kissing another chick while you were away? I KNOW you wouldn't be happy.", I said.

Okay. Fine. What else can't I do?

What do you want to do?", I said half laughing half shocked that she was so into this.

Are Web Cams off limits?", She replied

Uhhhhhh no I guess web cams are cool. Why? Do you have something to tell me?

I ahhh well I like to watch guys on web cams.

What What What? Since when?

Well you can watch them on SwapperNET.

Serious? No Shit...So have you?

"I watched Ron today." , Laura said softly.

It's cool. It on the acceptable list!

7) Respect and honor all rules that the couples that we play with have with each other.

8) Safe sex ALWAYS! Condoms are used at all times. We are both

9) We will only have sex with our partner in the same room.

I told Laura I could possibly be persuaded to break this rule depending on the situation but for now I would feel more comfortable with her in the room.

Okay. I am relieved. We both agreed on the rules. Some people <Cough> Laura <Cough> were more reluctant than others. I tried to get her to sign her initials next to each rule (joking) but I was told that "Rules were meant to be Broken". After we discussed the rules we had some amazing sex. I am a little nervous about Sunday but....I can't wait!

Extrait d'une conversation MSN bourrée de fautes. Pour voir l'étendu de notre vocabulaire lorsqu'on est relâché :

Francis dit :
man tu vas me trouver bidon mais je la trouve cool l'affiche
Francis dit :
c'est crissement bidon mais ça fait changement des criss de crap à la mode pseudo symétrique qu'on nous sert maintenant
Jason dit :
ouais mais le FFM a toujours eu des osties d'affiches bidons
Francis dit :
sérieux les esti d'affiches fluos que tous les criss de designers graphiques font
Jason dit :
http://www.canoe.com/divertissement/cinema/nouvelles/2007/08/23/ffm.jpg check ça crisse
Francis dit :
haha esti
Francis dit :
man je trouve ça cool
Francis dit :
c'est what the hell juste à souhait
Jason dit :
man tu délires
Francis dit :
man fuck off
Francis dit :
ça serait bien mieux une belle affiche symétrique à la mode avec des belles couleurs
Jason dit :
non
Jason dit :
quelque chose qui soit attrayant
Jason dit :
http://news.xinhuanet.com/english/2008-04/21/xin_47204052109048591710718.jpg
Francis dit :
tu trouves ça mieux?
Jason dit :
que le gros chat?
Francis dit :
visuellement ça me fait le même effet...
Jason dit :
CRISSE!
Francis dit :
je te dis man
Francis dit :
le gros chat man c'est what the hell
Francis dit :
et ça fait jaser
Francis dit :
l'affiche de cannes c'est juste "ok" pis ça fait pas jaser pentoute
Jason dit :
man si c'est pour faire jaser en mal
Jason dit :
être la risée des festivals
Francis dit :
man
Francis dit :
les bands punk
Francis dit :
ça jasait crissement en mal
Francis dit :
"de l'anti musique"
Francis dit :
"savent pas jouer"
Jason dit :
man on s'entend tu
Jason dit :
que ta comparaison tient pas
Francis dit :
"cheesy"
Francis dit :
hahaha
Francis dit :
je te dis man
Francis dit :
l'affiche je la trouve n'importe quoi certes, mais je la trouve intéressante parce qu'elle choque les cinéphiles
Francis dit :
hahaha
Francis dit :
et j'aime ce qui choque
Francis dit :
TU DEVRAIS ÊTRE D'ACCORD AVEC MOI
Francis dit :
MAUDIT TOEBAT
Jason dit :
NON
Jason dit :
VA CHIER!

I reluctantly decided to take the kids on vacation for a long weekend in Maine with my parents. A friend of the family has a nice little home bordering a beautiful national park and only miles from the beach. My family is crazy about the kids and they really wanted me to bring the kids to Maine. Personally I have a shit load of work to do but I decided I would take my thinkpad and work from the beach. I really respect the fact that my parents want to spend so much time with their grandchilden. They are crazy about them. If my dad doesn't see the kids at least three or four times a week he gets grouchy. My mother feels the same way. When I mentioned to Laura that my parents wanted us to go away with them she immediately rejected the idea. She had committed to baby sit a friends one year old boy for the week and we have a dog so putting her in a kennel for a few days costs a small fortune.

We spent a good part of the day today driving. Traffic was horrible. All the bostonians were heading up north for a spectacular summer weekend. We didn't arrive in Maine till almost 1:00PM. Laura called me minutes after we arrived.

"I thought you were going to call me when you got to Maine?", she asked.

We are just pulling in now. We hit traffic but the kids have been great! I told her. What are your plans today?

Sara and Ron want me to go to the movies with them. - I was hurt

"Oh really. I kinda figured they would reach out to you".

I lied. I really didn't think that Sara or Ron would betray my trust like that. I flat out told Sara a few days earlier that I was uncomfortable with the idea of meeting separately. I also told Laura that the idea of meeting separately kinda freaked me out. She said something to the effect that, "We were fucking other people in front of each other. What is the difference if we are in a different room?. I makes sense but it doesnt.

"Are you mad at me? They are bringing their son. It's not a big deal plus I am all by myself and I am bored" she replied.

"I am not mad. You can go if you want". She knew just how to diffuse my anger.

We said our goodbyes. We told each other that we love each other and at this point I was okay that she was going out with friends. I mean they had their kid with them so it wasn't a big deal right?

Maine sucks. We tried to go to the beach but there was no parking and we were starving. We ending up driving around for an hour and ate at this shitty little pub / pizza shop. After lunch we went grocery shopping and headed back to the house. For dinner we drove around for another hour. We scarfed down a few lobster rolls with way too much bread and way too little mayo or seasoning and went to play mini golf with the kids. When we got back to the house and got the kids settled it was almost dark. I started a nice little fire in the pit in the backyard and called Laura to see how the movie was. She answered the phone and I could hear people in the background. A surge of jealousy flashed through my body. I could feel my ears getting red and my stomach was in knots.

"Sara and Ron are here with me. I wanted to show them the house and the home theater. Are you mad at me?", she said cautiously.

I was mad at her. Really mad. I could barely speak and had to struggle to keep my composure and keep a civil conversation. I told her I was cool and that I trusted her. We said I love you and I told her I would tallk to her later. I spent most of the night outside by myself by the fire. I smoked a cigar and had a couple of Bud Lights and tried to reflect on how I felt about her with our new swinger friends ALONE at our house. My mind was blank. I couldn't think. I smoked my Cigar and figured I would IM her a little later tonight when, hopefully the guest were gone.

Well. I did IM her at almost ten o'clock and this is what happened.......

Laura: Hey baby wanna fuck

KinkyGeek: lmao

KinkyGeek: nice

Laura: Who do you think this is?

KinkyGeek: no clue

Laura: Take a guess.

KinkyGeek: hmmmmmmm maybe my wife?

Laura: Um, no.

KinkyGeek: Sara?

Laura: Very good. you get a cookie.

Laura: Or anything else you want.

KinkyGeek: lol. What did you move in?

Laura: PS I'm drunk.

KinkyGeek: I am not

Laura: yeah, Ron says we're waiting for you to get home.

Laura: Laura says to be sure to let you know that nothing's going on.

Laura: You aren't really mad are you? I heard her on the phone with you and I don't want you to be mad.

KinkyGeek: um kay....gonna have to wait till wednesday

Laura: Nothings going on except a lot of drinking and chatting.

KinkyGeek: thats cool. I am sure you and I will chat when she is in Boston

Laura: Oh yea. Let's CHAT. " "

KinkyGeek: oh we will

Laura: Chat *in person* you mean?

KinkyGeek: oh yes

Laura: Laura says we'll take you to the movies.

Laura: Gotta a web cam?

KinkyGeek: so. I dont wanna see everyone sloppy drunk & NAKED while my parents are around

Laura: Aww.

Laura: You have a ncie house, btw.

KinkyGeek: spanks

Laura: We're not naked btw. Unless you want us to be.

Laura: We could be naked, though

Laura: errr

Laura: shit

Laura: i'm drunk.

Laura: Forgive me.

KinkyGeek: ooooh I am sure you could but then I would be jealous

Laura: Don't be jealous 'cause really we

Laura: WANT" Y"OU" HERE

Laura: Laura says she hopes you trust her enough to know she's not doing anything

Laura: you konw, unless you want her to be.,.....

KinkyGeek: I do trust her...I just didnt wanna miss out on the fun

Laura: Does that mean we can do stuff to her and then catch you up later?

KinkyGeek: lol

KinkyGeek: I gotta go....rents are coming down to watch tv with me

Laura: oh dear

Laura: don't leave us!

KinkyGeek: catch up on ya later

Laura: Ok, have fun.

KinkyGeek: you too

I really need some advice here. I know a few people read this blog and a perhaps a few seasoned swingers. What should I make of this while situation? I am fucking lost. I am so jealous. I don't know that I actually trust Laura 100% especially when she has a few drinks in her. I will keep everyone posted... Not sure how I am going to sleep tonight.

On the way home from the restaurant Laura made me stop at the liquor store - or packie for you Massholes out there - to pick up a cold bottle of wine. When we got home it wasn't long till people started Instant Messaging us. The whole thing is very High School. Strangers and people we barely know instant messenging us but I have to admit it is exciting. Every time I chat with someone I get a flutter in my stomach knowing that some day we could potentially be screwing these people.

I was busy around the house all night. My ADD was kicking in and I can't sit still for a minute. I started organizing my DVD's, cleaning up the Playstation and my kids Nintendo Wii games, and blogging. Laura was chatting with Sara and Ron. I was starting to get jealous because I thought she was arranging to meet with Ron while I am away on business next week. She wasn't.

Laura did barge into my office with her day planner in hand. "We should meet up with them again", she said. I was a little apprehensive.

"The next week is nuts", i said. When do you want to meet them again?

How about this Friday?, Laura said.

"Too soon. I have way to much work on my plate." It was true. I have a shitload of work to do right now but honestly I was buying time. "How about a week from Sunday?"

Laura confirmed our meeting next Sunday with Ron and Sara. Honestly, if I get more sex I am down with this. (Reluctantly)

Last night Laura and I had sex. It wasn't the passionate, wild sex that I love. It was the shit we have been together too long and I know my husband really needs sex,  sex. I FUCKING hate sympathy sex. Part of me thinks it would be fun to meet with Sara and Ron again. I know Laura is way into Ron even though she may not admit it. Honestly, I would rather fuck Beth (See People I reference in my Blog) as she is more my type but I know Sara would really go out of her way to please me. I have never had that. Laura as much as I love her is all about her when it comes to sex. I think Sara would rock my world which is why I agreed to have them over to our house in a week!
Again. This summer is about to heat up! What should I do?

about were the events of the Saturday Night orgy. I still play it back in my mind to try and come to terms with what we actually did. I thought for sure there would be some potential fall out between Laura and I but so far that isn't the case.

The whole experience has been a trip. For me it was a sexual dream come true. Look at it this way. I got to make out with two chicks plus my wife. I got to watch my wife make out

with two chicks (and two dudes but I block that out). I touched both girls EVERYWHERE and got to explore another

womans perfectly shaved pussy with my tounge as my wife was getting eaten out by another girl. I got oral sex from one of the girls and I got to see Laura getting fucked doggy style by another guy while I was busy with Sara. - This actually turned me on quite a bit and it is something I think I need to explore in anoth

er post!!

If I had to do it all again (and I hope I get the opportunity) I would have preferred that we didn't go back to the hotel room with Sara and Ron. It was fun when we were all making out on the dance floor but I don't think under normal circumstances - Less Drunk - I would have wanted to have sex with Sara (unless it was Anal and then even still I am not so sure). It would have been better to focus entirely on one other couple. Six people in a hotel room naked and fucking was just waaaaay to much going on for my brain to handle. I remember looking up from licking Beth and seeing her with a cock in her mouth and then I look to my right and see Laura getting eaten out while she has a cock in her mouth. I actually didn't see her with the cock in her mouth but she has since told me she was.

I have been feeling extremely close to Laura after the experience. I think it really opened my eyes to a lot of things. I notice that I am way more attentive to how she is feeling. In a way I sort of feel like the chick and I feel she is acting more like a guy. After my proposal was submitted and the kids were in bed I smoked a little green and pressed Laura for her thoughts on the whole experience.

What happened on Saturday? I still don't know if you actually enjoyed yourself or if you are mad at me or what the deal is. I asked her.

Why would I be mad at you?

I don't know. Maybe you are jealous that I was licking another woman and things got out of control?

I was a little jealous when I though I saw you fucking Beth but I wouldn't have done anything if I didn't like it or I wasn't into it.

Wow. Okay. I didn't know what you were thinking the whole thing just happened soooo fast. I mean we were literally 30 seconds into the hotel room when I saw Sara lie you on the bed, rip your pants off, and start eating you out!

I know it happed so fast. You looked like a deer in headlights.

Damn right I did! I didn't know what the fuck to do! I liked Beth but she had Ron licking her while i was kissing her neck. It was a little weird....So was Sara good at oral?

Sara was amazing the way she licked me but I would have liked to go down on Beth! I still haven't tried pussy yet.

I asked Laura if she felt closer to me or farther apart.

"About the same", she said casually.

I feel closer to you and I am surprised you don't feel closer to me

"Why do you feel closer to me?"

Because we both shared a crazy experience that only you and I know about. You work friends, your family, when I look at you now I know in my mind how wild you are and its our little secret!

Yeah. I guess if you put it that way I do feel closer to you.

G Thanks!

After that I asked her what her favorite and least favorite thing was that night.

Favorite

Kissing a girl and getting eaten out by a girl.

Least Favorite

Getting fucked doggy style by Ryan. He was apparently too rough. (Beth likes it rough FYI)

Final Thoughts - Feedback

I would welcome any and all comments and feedback on the whole experience. Despite the pretty good conversation with Laura I am still not certain where we stand on this. I suspect that she would be willing to do it again. I would imagine if she didn't want to do it I would know. A couple of comments she made make me feel like she would try this or other variations of swinging. In the car on the way home from the hotel that night I could have sworn she said, "I still haven't had a MMF threesome or tasted pussy". Second, during our conversation above she said she kind of liked the fact that there were six people in the room with naked body parts all spread out on the bed. She said she felt like she was in a porno.

Amen to that!

The events of Saturday night have bee

n playing in my mind non stop since we left the hotel in a fuzzy haze of alcohol and endorphins. It has been distracting me like a kid with a bad case of ADD. I am trying to focus on work but its been difficult to say the least.

I was nervous... Laura was nervous... It was 8 O'clock and we were in a local sports bar waiting to meet Sara and her husband Ron for the first time. Laura and I arrived at the bar about an hour early so we could have a couple of drinks and try and shake off the apprehension of meeting complete strangers. Correction - Complete strangers who like to have SEX with other couples. We discussed ahead of time what we were going to do when then walked in. Do we shake their hand? Do we give her a hug? When they finally arrived It was a little awkward. Sara looked similar to the one picture I saw of her except she was taller at 6 feet (probably the heels) and she was definately a little heavier than I thought. Her auburn hair was really long and reached almost halfway to her ass. I froze at the sight of them and attempted a weird sorta half hug half peck on the cheek when she walked over to our table. I shook Ron's hand. He was tall and skinny with long auburn hair pulled back in a pony tail and a groomed goatee on his face. We all ordered a drink and made small talk about what we could expect at our first house party. Ron started to freak me out when he told us the story of the last time he went to t

his party.

"I was dragged up stairs by this woman who said she wanted to see what was going on. I was trying to find an excuse to leave her but she kept pulling me upstairs. Then, this other time a bunch of us were all in the hot tub naked. We were all having a good time and suddenly this chick started blowing her husband in the tub and I realized I was the only other guy in the tub. That was a little creepy."

More nervous than before, I pounded a Vokda soda and asked Sara about her experiences.

"You need to have an excuse", she said. That why if someone asked you upstairs you are prepared. I just got an IUD and I can't go upstairs. Thats my out.

I made a little more small talk. We talked about the new show "Swingtown" on TV and more about the "lifestyle" in general. Everyone seemed to be getting along pretty well. By this time the alcohol was doing the trick. I was feeling pretty good and we decided to make our way to the house party. Sara and Ron followed us to the party. I got the address from the hosts and entered it in my GPS. It was only 5 minutes from the bar and it gave Laura and I precious little time to discuss what we were getting into. It was too late to back out but at this point we were pretty excited about the events to come.

"What do you think of Sara? She isn't exactly what I expected. She is a little heavier than I thought and her outfit is crazy. - She was wearing a tight black bustier so her double D tits were pushed up. I think are both pretty cool but I am a little worried."

Why? Laura Asked.

If chicks were dragging him upstairs and getting freaky with him in the hot tub they are going to be on me like white on rice.

Laura laughed out loud. You're right. You are definately better looking than he is. She is pretty cool though. Not a very good outfit but I like her.

So whats the deal are you nervous?, I asked.

No I am not really nervous anymore. I am ready to get my freak on, Laura said making a V with her fingers and sticking her tougue out at me. It was a funny as hell.

I am not sure I am ready to actually get freaky with anyone tonight I told her. I just wanna check out the scene and find out what this is about. I also think we should go to the Club Party later on. That way we have an out if things get crazy at the house party.

I don't necessarily wanna fuck any guys tonight but maybe I'll make out with another chick, Laura said with a I'm ready to get wild look on her face. (I though I was the kinky one but I am starting to believe I make not be the only one in this relationship)

House Party

We arrived at the house party

a little before 9 O'Clock just after the sun had set and the summer air began to cool. There wasn't as many cars in the road or the driveway like I had expected. We started walking up the driveway and were greeted by the male host of the party. He told us to come inside and made us feel welcome. They lived in a decent sized raised ranch with 4 bedrooms upstairs. The neighborhood was quiet and there was a lot of privacy in the back yards. We walked inside the house and entered the kitchen where a a few people were mixing drinks and eating snacks and talking about sex. I introduced myself to a couple people while Laura hit the bathroom to pee. I mixed us each a stiff drink and a moment later we went outside to explore the back yard with Sara and Ron. There was a big sturdy chimminea with a fire blazing in the center of a big ring of lounge chairs. To the right of the fire pit was a huge gazeebo with a hot tub and what I assumed was another sitting area. We could see the outline of naked bodies sitting on the edge of the tub and we heard voices from the sitting area. We took a seat next to Sara and Ron around the fire. The conversation focused almost entirely on swinging, meeting people, and past parties. A few more couples joined us around the fire and everyone was extremely friendly and open. Some people used AdultFriendFinder exclusively to meet people, other used Swappernet which tends to have more explicit pictures and other like ourself used SwingLifeStyle. Some people had profiles on all three. We both recognised people from thier profiles online.

The crowd was fairly mixed. We met a interracial couple in thier early 30's like ourselves. We had a good conversation with the guy while his wife was no where to be seen. I assume she was in the hot tub with another crowd of people including the hosts. We also recognized a woman who's profile said she loves having multiple guys cum inside her. Sometimes she plays with her husband and other times she lets the guys fill up her pussy and ass with hot cum so she can take pictures to show him. Apparently, they both loved it! The other part of the crowd tended to skew a little older. Mid to late 40's. Most of the people looked like your typical soccer mom. Some were a little on the trashy side but for the most part everyone was mellow and laid back. We stayed at the party for about two hours and decided we wanted to check out a party at a club ten minutes down the road. A few of the people we were talking to said we would probably enjoy the club scene since we were young and the crowd tended to be younger. We ended up thanking the hosts for the invite and told them we might be back. The woman responded to me that she hoped we would come back because she didn't get the opportunity to "have us yet". Sara overheard her and sarcastically said that she didn't have her yet either! I was loose and ready to go. I packed up the Raspberry Stoli I brought with us and hid it in the trunk of my car. Minutes later we were at our first Swingers Club.

Club

The club / Hotel Party was nothing like I had imagined. The four of us walked in and were greeted by a young husband and wife at a small table. They were selling tickets to get in and giving the men bracelets. They also handed out a business card with a list of upcoming events. They immediately recognized Sara and Ron and introduced themselves to Laura and I. The place was like a typical club. There was a well stocked bar on the right side with a couple of gorgeous blond bartenders mixing drinks and pouring expensive tequila shots. The place had some modern white over sized chairs and sitting areas along the perimiter. There were a couple of stripper poles on either side of the elevated DJ booth and best of all there was a "Photo Shoot" area in the back corner. Everyone in the club was dressed to kill. Most of the chicks has small little mini skirts on with thier belly showing and tits propped up high. Some of the girls were having thier picture taken as they made out with other girls and the occasional guy. I did see a couple of school girl outfits which really turned me on and a few chicks had skin tight leather cutout dresses that were HOT!

Ron bought everyone a drink at the bar and we decided to play pool over near the photo shoot area. There was only one pool table and it wasn't that busy in the club so we had room to move and talk with each other. I decided Sara would be on my team and Ron would get Laura. I can't really remember what we talked about when we played pool but I remember Sara getting very close to me when it was my time to shoot. Every time she would lean into me with her tits and hand me the cue while whispering advice into my ear. We only couple minutes and I eventually found the three of them off to the side of the dance floor.

Alright. I want to find the lady with the most bracelets. Which one of you has the most?, the DJ boomed over the PA.

We had no idea what he was talking about but as I turned my head back to the bar I saw a chick with her tits out. They weren't that big, probably only a small B cup, but she did have a nipple pierced and one of the bracelets the DJ mentioned tied on to the nipple ring. She caught the eye of everyone in out little group and made the few steps over to introduce herself.

Hi, I'm Beth and this is Ryan. I think I don't have the most bracelets but I think I should win most creative use of one. She giggled as she approached.

Sara immediately whipped out her tits to show Beth what she was packing.

Damn, that looks like it hurts. I said to Beth looking at the piercing.

Not at all Tug on it she said...

At this point on things get REAL FUZZY...

Here I was practically in the middle of the dance floor with my wife and four people I really only just met. There were two chicks with thier tits out, I was touching one, Sara was touching the other. Then Sara and Laura started touching each other. Beth's husband was so nonchalant about the whole thing. Let me buy you guys a drink he said. I had to take it easy on the booze so I ordered a beer and tried to make small talk with Beth.

This has been an interesting night. We went to our first Meet and Greet at someones home earlier tonight and now we are at our first swingers party, I said to her.

Are you serious? She said with a huge smile. How do you like it so far?,

It's sweet. I can't believe I am really here. (Yeah I know, I know. I am not exactly Rico Suave with the ladies but at this point I was pretty buzzed)

Ryan arrived with our beers and we chatted for only a few moments before things got hot and heavy. I remember Ron going down and sucking on one of Beth's perky little tits. I bent down and flicked my tounge across the nipple with peircing. I stood up looked over my shoulder. Laura was making out with Ryan. Before I knew it Beth grabbed me and we kissed passionately. It was like I was back in High School. The butterflies raced in my stomach as I grabbed Beth and brought her into me. We kissed deeply and softly. I pulled back a few times and teased her with my toungue. Her breath soft on my ear. It was amazing. I looked over my shoulder and Laura was making out with Sera. I finally got to see some girl girl action when I was interrupted by Ron.

Need another drink guys?

I'll have a Vokda Soda I said thinking the vodka and citrus would be better on my breath than beer.

I broke from the group and joined Ron at the bar. After I got my drink I went straight to the bathroom. At this point I was fucked up. I remember going to the bathroom and just laughing. Did I really just make out with Cameron Diaz? I said to myself in the mirror. I mean here I am. A 31 year old regular guy who tends to like smoking weed, computers and snowboarding better than sports and I was in a fucking swingers club making out with hot chicks in front of my wife! I'll admit, I was a late bloomer in the sexual conquest department (like 31 years late) but it was worth the wait. This was sweet.

Beth was a stunning 6'2" beauty with long legs, bonde hair and fuck me hazel eyes. She had a cute little smirk on her face whenever I was next to her and her stomach and ass were amazing. When we all finally connected on the dance floor we were right back to feeling each other up and making out. Laura was holding Beth by the back of the neck and kissing her. I moved in behind them and kissed them both and whispered in their ear. (Don't ask me what cuz I was trashed) Sara approached me and the next thing you know it we were kissing passionately. After this point all I remember is Ryan telling me that Beth was way into Laura. Toss that comment in with me kissing both Sara and Beth the rest of the night it wasn't long before things got brought to the next level.

After hours Entertainment

We walked the short distance to Beth and Ryan's room. It was just down the hall and they had a picture of themselves taped on the outside of the door. A minute after the door closed, the clothes started flying. I literally looked over my left shoulder <Matrix Style> and saw Laura on the bed with her pants and panties GONE and Sara in between her legs licking her pussy. To say I was shocked was an understatement. At this time I froze. I was not sure if I was shocked or excited I just froze. I was standing behind Beth. Seconds later I look down and Ron is eating her out while standing. I reach up behind Beth and hold her tits with both of my hands. We start making out and she is moaning. I don't know if its from Ron licking her or me kissing her and feeling her and whispering we need to fuck!

Next I am on the bed licking Beth's pussy. It was perfectly sized. Not too big not too small and her clit was ready to be licked. I remember sticking my finger inside of her while I licked. At this point she was also giving Ron a blow job. Now I am not sure when I actually blacked out but I think this was the point. For a second I believe Sara was sucking my dick then all I remember is going to the bathroom to try and compose myself. Ron started fucking Beth while I was gone. When I returned from the bathroom I remember going over to Sara to maybe fuck her. I glanced down and I could see Ryan behind my wife fucking her doggy style. He was fucking her hard and deep and I could see her head moving as she kissed Beth. Next I remember asking him if we could switch and I fucked Laura doggy style till she came.

Next I remember. "Where are my clothes". - Laura was the last one still naked.

I remember walking down the hallway of the hotel out to our car.

We chatted with Sara and Ron for a minute while I smoked a ciggerette which I NEVER do. Then Laura drove us home. The last thing I remember is lying in bed with her asking what we just did? She said, I don't know but I am horny.

Let's go! I said but we were both exhausted and dirrty and drunk (well at least I was).

Die Gesellschaft mit Sitz in Frankfurt am Main gehört zum Konzernverbund der Deutsche Wohnen AG. AKF hat sich in den vergangenen Jahren zu einer multimedialen Kabelplattform für Wohnungsgesellschaften entwickelt.

Mit dem Erwerb eines Kabelnetzbetreibers der Netzebene 4 erschließt sich Versatel den direkten technischen Zugang zum Endkunden und nutzt somit seinen Hauptwettbewerbsvorteil, das eigene Netz. In den Gebieten, in denen AKF präsent ist, hat Versatel außerdem die Chance von der Deutschen Telekom AG unabhängiger zu werden und die Entgelte für Teilnehmeranschlüsse zu sparen. Durch den Kauf der ca. 76.000 Haushalte (Stand 31.12.2007), gewinnt Versatel aufgrund langfristiger Verträge stabile Kundenbeziehungen. Gleichzeitig ermöglicht der Netzzugang die Vorbereitung für Angebote mit höheren Bandbreiten und neuen Multimedia-Produkten. „Die Akquisition von AKF stellt in diesem Fall eine deutlich kostengünstigere und schneller realisierbare Lösung zum Ausbau des eigenen Glasfasernetzes dar. Nach dem Erwerb der AKF verfügt Versatel als einziger Anbieter über die Kombination engmaschiger City-Netze und eines Kabelnetzes mit direktem Kundenzugang. Die Übernahme der AKF stellt ferner einen risikofreien Einstieg in das TV-Geschäft dar ohne IP TV in das Versatel-Produktportfolio aufzunehmen“, so Peer Knauer, Vorstandsvorsitzender von Versatel.

AKF bietet derzeit ein umfassendes Angebot an TV- und Entertainment-Diensten sowie Internet und Telefonie an. Von mehr als 50.000 AKF-Haushalten innerhalb der Versatel-Regionen sind fast 80 Prozent rückkanalfähig und bieten daher ideale Voraussetzungen für die Migration der Versatel-Kunden auf das AKF-Kabelnetz. Damit kann Versatel diesen Kunden künftig Dienste mit im Vergleich zu DSL höheren Bandbreiten von mehr als 20 MBit/s anbieten. Die Kombination von TV- und DSL-Diensten ermöglicht gleichzeitig eine stärkere Ausrichtung auf Bündelangebote, wie Triple- und Quadruple Play, also die Verknüpfung von Mobilfunk-, Fernseh-, Internet- und Telefondienstleistungen und -produkten. Mit dem Erwerb der AKF gewinnt Versatel zudem Management-Know-how in der Kabelindustrie. Von den Kompetenzen im Bereich der Kooperation mit Wohnungsbaugesellschaften und dem Angebot von TV-Produkten wird Versatel zukünftig profitieren.

"Unsere eigene Netzinfrastruktur ist das zentrale Differenzierungsmerkmal von Versatel gegenüber unserem Wettbewerb und damit der Schlüssel zum Erfolg. Wir haben mit dem Erwerb von AKF die Chance genutzt, die Qualität und Reichweite unseres Netzes kostenoptimiert auf einen Schlag erheblich zu vertiefen und uns durch den direkten Kundenzugang in den entsprechenden Regionen unabhängiger von der Telekom zu machen", so Peer Knauer.

Der deutsche DSL-Markt ist gekennzeichnet durch ein verlangsamtes Wachstum und eine steigende Wettbewerbsintensität. Die Folgen sind erheblicher Preisdruck und massiv gestiegene Kundengewinnungskosten. Auch der Kabelmarkt befindet sich in einer Phase der Konsolidierung, getrieben durch das Streben der einzelnen Netzbetreiber nach Unabhängigkeit.

Die Übernahme der AKF durch Versatel führt die Interessen beider Branchen zusammen und bietet eine neue Form der Konsolidierung durch die innovative Realisierung von Kostensynergien und Bündeleffekten. Somit ist eine solide Positionierungsmöglichkeit im Hinblick auf die Preisgestaltung und eine zukunftsfähige Wettbewerbsposition durch ein differenziertes Produktangebot gesichert.

"Mit dem Erwerb von AKF setzt Versatel seine erfolgreiche Historie als aktiver Konsolidierer fort und erweitert die Möglichkeiten für die Kundenanbindung. Unsere umfangreiche Erfahrung in der Integration verschiedener Gesellschaften wird auch in diesem Fall sicherstellen, dass wir schnellstmöglich von den Vorteilen des Zusammenschlusses profitieren", so Peer Knauer.

Fast forward a little more than a year later....

Laura rolled out of bed at 9AM and strolled down the stairs to start her day.  She was half asleep when she stolled into my office. I could see her hard nipples through her brown satin pajama top. She brushed her beautiful perky tits across my face and whispered she had the most amazing dream. She said she was with another woman and they were naked in our bedroom fucking and sucking each others soaking wet pussies. She said she was sixty-nine'ing the other chick. She was on the bottom and the other womans pussy lips were spread on her mouth. I was instantly turned on. The past few times we have had sex I have been planting the seeds that I would be up for anything as long as I get MORE SEX! I started talking about swinging and I told her if she was interested I would be ready to give it another try. I told her flat out, "If you want another woman you can have one. If you want another man, you can have one. My only condition is I have to be there when it happens (same room) and I would like to participate at some point." She told me that she really wanted to try a threesome with another woman. Its no surprise that would be a fantasy of mine also but I would want to be in on the action. In other words, I would love to watch Laura kiss and make out with another girl. I would even love to watch them use toys, lick, and fuck each other but eventually I would want to fuck my wife in front of the other chick. If I get to do more with the other chick that would be icing on the cake. My ultimate fantasy is to fuck them both and have the other girl let me stick it in her ass till I cum.

Laura told me her other fantasy is to have a threesome with myself and another guy. This is really kinky and I would totally be down for it with the right guy. I'm still not sure what the right guys is. Laura said she would want a guy with a small cock so he could fuck her in the ass while I was in her pussy. This kinda pissed me off because I have never had Anal and its always been one of my fantasies. She said my cock is too big and it wont fit. I say...WHATEVER! Anyway Maxim magazine did a survey of women to find thier darkest fantasies and one of them was a MMF threesome. Apparently it means the woman wants to feel adored and worshipped and I think it is dead on. Nevertheless I am into making my wife happy and if this is what it will take to supersize our sex drive so be it!